Where is the earth that was under our feet?  Where in the ocean of change can we find a shore and find new territory to stand on? We know we can not be the old idea of normal ever again. 

To say the world is upside down and inside out touches the disorientation that comes with loss- especially sudden loss. 
​Understanding the energy principles determining your body of pain, the field of you that hurts with your loss and grief, is not something easily explained.  This offering attempts to guide you to navigate your inner self and bring movement to the suffering and release to the turmoil that comes when someone you love passes away, passes over, transitions, transcends, returns to their source or simply put-- dies. 

Our weaknesses demand our attention as they get crushingly revealed when that "soothing balm" that the loved one was to us slips away.  Forced to take stock of who we are without them, this unwanted path is for the mighty of spirit and the work to do for some of us is truly daunting and debilitating at first.  We must pace ourselves.
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1. Facing the truth
2. The Shock & Aftershocks
3. Noticing the Myths to Bust---You Must Become What Your Loved One Was to You. 
4. Surreal non-ordinary reality
5. Stripping away the familiar
6. Pain locks and keys to release
7. Living with questions that wait for answers
8. Your spiritual condition
9. Fate steering to destiny 
10. Living & dying through what you must let go of

They suddenly die,
We live on.
We both are stripped.
We hurt
We accept and still hurt
We grow and still hurt
We function and still hurt
Hearing hurt's message massages our strangled hearts.
Heeding our heart's messages untangles our parts.